Whether you believe it should be called the Lebanese War or the Lebanese Civil War. Whether you believe it was fundamentally a confessional conflict or a proxy war fought on Lebanese soil. Whether you were in East Beirut or West Beirut. Whether you refused to leave during the country’s darkest hours or regret not having immigrated sooner than you did. Whether you believe the country has learned its lessons the hard way and will never let it happen again or believe war is just around the corner, waiting for the right spark to tear the country apart once and for all…there is one fact that remains:
41 years since the outbreak of the war and 26 years since it officially ended, there are 17,000 that remain disappeared. Till this day, these 17,000 people, whether kidnapped at the hands of local or foreign militias, summarily executed days later or arrested and arbitrarily detained in Syria, still alive or long gone and resting in one of many mass graves across the country….their unknown fate has literally or metaphorically killed many others, their families and friends, slowly killed by the indifference of the world around them, as well as the Lebanese government’s inability and unwillingness to help them answer for their loved ones. Their lives have been poisoned by uncertainty and disillusioned by hope, yet many of them still wait and haven’t given up on the truth, no matter what.

Today, and every year from now on, commemorating April 13 shouldn’t be about the war itself, but about the need for the Lebanese government to provide answers about the disappeared and bring those responsible to account for their crimes.
While commending the selfless work done by many non-governmental organizations to support, help uncover this truth and bring if only some closure to families (including Solide, Committee of the Families of the Kidnapped and Disappeared in Lebanon and ACT for the Disappeared), it remains a duty for which the government must take full responsibility for.
Without these answers and without justice, we cannot “remember [the war] so as to not repeat it again (“تنذكر وما تنعاد”), nor can we expect the war to have truly ended.